tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post8983906401714286149..comments2024-02-19T02:31:36.233-08:00Comments on I AM NOT SUPERWOMAN!: My Eden. My Apple. My Heart. Africa!I Am Not Superwomanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15717039007487251634noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-18221107774050009742011-12-08T08:55:25.954-08:002011-12-08T08:55:25.954-08:00To the first/last anonymous post. Thank you for c...To the first/last anonymous post. Thank you for coming back and apologizing. I really do appreciate all the concern. I have actually received quite a bit of positive feedback as well those are just choosing not to use this forum so you are only seeing a snapshot unfortunately many have been negative. Just like anything in life, "you can't be everything to everyone". This speaks true I think for charities/non profits. The model is not always going to fit every persons expectations. Again, thank you for everyone who has voiced their concern but again I feel comfortable enough to continue to move forward. I don't think by going over there one time that I am going to change the world or the village for that matter but rather be involved in something bigger than myself and give of myself to the village as God sees fit. If that means I simply immerse myself in their culture building a relationship with them, then that is what I will do. And again to make it clear I am prepared to pay a huge portion of this on my own so no worries if nobody donates however I have a great group of friends, family, collegues that have chosen to support me.I Am Not Superwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717039007487251634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-19740838360172820032011-12-08T07:45:40.745-08:002011-12-08T07:45:40.745-08:00I am the first anonymous poster. I apologize if I...I am the first anonymous poster. I apologize if I came off as unkind. I absolutely in no way meant to be. I prayed and really felt that I should warn you about my experience. And no. The donations, if earmarked for your travel expenses, are not tax deductible and if they are telling you they are, that should be the first big, red major flag for you. The second should be all the people who, quite kindly I thought, have tried to warn you about this organization. You seem to have more people trying to warn you than supporting you. You quite honestly should be getting discouraged. If just going to Africa to walk around and see the country is what you are after, great. But if you want to actually make a difference in the lives in this area, please, please find another way. <br />I again, I apologize if I came across as rude. I just know if it was me about to make this major decision/trip, I'd sure want people to share with me what they knew.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-89037028807404756432011-12-07T21:49:04.162-08:002011-12-07T21:49:04.162-08:00Wow, what an amazing opportunity!! I wish I could ...Wow, what an amazing opportunity!! I wish I could help right now but we're cutting the budget pretty close this month with christmas but maybe after the new year we can help you on your mission! We just had a friend come back from building a school in Malawi Africa and he said it was such an inspiring mission trip :)Irish Italian Blessingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10664415012892528787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-56270530106142853582011-12-07T18:38:07.112-08:002011-12-07T18:38:07.112-08:00It makes me sad to hear people being so unkind. I...It makes me sad to hear people being so unkind. I don't know anything about this organization. It is ok for people to nicely express concerns (and there are enough being voiced that they may be legitimate), but there is no reason for people to be rude. So, don't let those who being so harsh discourage your desire to help others. <br /><br />With that said,I do want to (kindly) echo Heather's concerns about the tax issue. I started working with an adoption agency that set up donations this same way. I was advised by a very reputable CPA that this is essentially fraud. To say that money is not being earmarked when it really is, is dishonest. I stopped working with the agency (who, by the way, called themself a Christian organization).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-64548126669542011202011-12-07T15:15:37.522-08:002011-12-07T15:15:37.522-08:00Sorry, I commented anonymously because I didn'...Sorry, I commented anonymously because I didn't see the "name" option and I don't have any accounts under the other 2 option. (Yes, my name is Jenny. I was born when that's what everyone named their daughter.)<br /><br />Fi, that's great that you donated despite the deductibility, but do you agree that it is at the very least disingenuous to claim something is tax deductible when it is not? That may be a factor for some people, and it's just plain not true.<br /><br />I also wanted to say that you open yourself up to opposite opinions and criticism by posting on the internet. You made a public post on a site owned by Google and you can't reasonable expect to control the behavior of anyone who finds it. I sincerely urge you to look into Google's public blog policy, and if you don't agree, move your blog to a site that allows you to turn off anonymous comments and/or moderate comments. Or make your blog private.Jenny B.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-57437497731671165312011-12-07T13:55:01.766-08:002011-12-07T13:55:01.766-08:00Fi, thank you! I needed to hear that. I was gett...Fi, thank you! I needed to hear that. I was getting a bit discouraged.I Am Not Superwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717039007487251634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-38992972039168996282011-12-07T13:53:37.731-08:002011-12-07T13:53:37.731-08:00Susan, I think what you are doing for that women i...Susan, I think what you are doing for that women is AWESOME. If only there were more caretakers such as yourself. Giving of themselves 24/7. And I truly mean that. I am sorry that you do not feel humanitarian work is a legitimate reason to ask for donations. Again I have done research on GHNI that allows me to be comfortable with going on their trips.This by no means is a vacation for me.If I wanted a vacation I think I would choose Hawaii over Africa anyday. <br /><br />Caroline, Thank you for asking those questions. I chose this group as someone to affliate myself with because they go there to help them become self sustainable not just giving the people of the village a hand out. They help provide means to an end of poverty. We can give them money, just send it over there and then what? Often times they have no real leadership to help them know what to do with it, how to build it for future generations. I am as transparent as they come and people can check out their website to learn more about GHNI if they so choose.<br /><br />Heather,Thank you for your comments. I appreciate your concern.<br /><br />At this point, I have decided I have answered as many questions/concerns as I feel fit. If you are a regular follower and have questions/concerns please contact me at my email address. If you are just a visitor for this particular post, please refrain from commenting any longer, the request to donate was not to you. If you don't want to donate, by all means, don't. If don't want to read my blog, by all means, don't. Thank you.I Am Not Superwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717039007487251634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-75768461071395475602011-12-07T13:46:19.586-08:002011-12-07T13:46:19.586-08:00I applaud those who have commented under their rea...I applaud those who have commented under their real names - bravo for you. To those cowardly persons who comment anonymously to avoid comeback - find somewhere else to spill your poison.<br /><br />I donated because I felt like it. Not because Jenn begged, pleaded or anything else and certainly not for the tax deductible benefits. We are all free to choose who and what we donate money to.<br /><br />The important thing here is Jenn has a dream and some of us have enough faith and belief in her to help. Not huge vast amounts of money - small and manageable - less than I would spend on a coffee and a muffin in a day.<br /><br />Those of you 'anonymous' commenters should perhaps find somewhere else to go because surely you don't understand Jenn or her motivation, those who are genuinely concerned have at least put your names to comments.<br /><br />Truly appalled that such hateful people exist in the blogosphere.<br /><br />Jenn - I wouldn't waste my time responding or defending your dreams to these people. We all have a choice to read, to contribute or to turn away - that's what life is all about, choices. <br /><br />Belief in yourself is all that matters here.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16151064836369618082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-48460493864773537352011-12-07T13:40:01.150-08:002011-12-07T13:40:01.150-08:00I wanted to chime in on the IRS issue, as donation...I wanted to chime in on the IRS issue, as donations will NOT be tax deductible. According to IRS regulations, contributions made to a 501(3)(c) organization are not tax deductible if they are earmarked for an individual, regardless of the charitable nature of the payment. See here for an excellent summary of the IRS rules: http://www.case.org/Documents/Books/28239/IRSRulesandRegulations.pdfHeather L.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-81113913476278220862011-12-07T13:24:55.299-08:002011-12-07T13:24:55.299-08:00I have recently stumbled across your blog and find...I have recently stumbled across your blog and find your posts quite beautiful! However, at risk of offending you (and please know that is certainly not my intent) I was a quite concerned to see you mention the particular organization you wanted to partner with to do work in Africa. Please, please research further and for a VERY eye opening experience, ask to see their annual financial statement. This is truly written out of love and concern and NOT out of spite or hate. I wish you all the best with whatever you decide. I do feel that previous commenters have suggested some reputable and beneficial organizations to affiliate with should your heart desire.Heather Heavnernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-47997143512827236292011-12-07T13:08:22.075-08:002011-12-07T13:08:22.075-08:00I know that you don't want anonymous comments,...I know that you don't want anonymous comments, so I am posting here under my real name. I am curious, how did you find out about GHNI and their trips? what exactly is it about the organization, and their purported work that appeals to you? I think, before asking anyone to support your goal (which in itself is not necessarily a bad thing) you should be willing to offer as much information as possible, otherwise the likelihood that people will people will accuse you of wrong doings is great. If the trip and everything that GHNI stands for is important to you, wonderful! shout it from the rooftops! but beware of damaging those precious relationships with your blog readers - should that happen if people feel that GHNI as an organization is not fully on the "up and up" then your reputation will be forever damaged. sincerely, CarolineCarolinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-2426652141132947172011-12-07T12:54:35.667-08:002011-12-07T12:54:35.667-08:00I help support a woman that has to travel 500 mile...I help support a woman that has to travel 500 miles every 3 weeks for cancer treatment. The treatment she needs to stay alive isn't available in Seattle so she has to go to California for it. Asking for donations for a trip to Africa is an insult to other bloggers that have legitimate donation needs. You need to do a little more research on GHN1. I believe they are scam artists. But hey, it's your blog and your life. If you want to beg for money for a vacation, feel free.Susannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-15827317611576720152011-12-07T12:21:13.587-08:002011-12-07T12:21:13.587-08:00Also, you may wish to let your followers, readers ...Also, you may wish to let your followers, readers and people you've built relationships with know that donations made to a charity that are earmarked are NOT tax deductible. If they make a donation to someone's specific expenses, that is effectively paying for your trip directly but funneling the money through a non-profit. If GHNI is issuing tax documents stating otherwise that is fraud, and all the more reason not to become involved with that organization.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-78000231608433567702011-12-07T11:56:12.241-08:002011-12-07T11:56:12.241-08:00I have traveled on many mission trips. Trips that...I have traveled on many mission trips. Trips that I paid for myself, many with money raised from garage sales, or simply saving up for a year so I could go. I too looked into a trip with GHNI, and unfortunately found their humanitarian work a rather pompous to do about nothing. For the life of me I don't see that they do anything but stand around and gawk, taking a few pictures, and gawk. They eat the village food while the villagers, they are supposedly there to help, stand and watch. I have never been on a trip where this was the case, in fact we've always provided our own food and we're usually too busy working to take a meal break until dinner, which we prepare and feed not only ourselves but the people we are there to help. <br /><br />If you are truely heart lead to do mission or humanitarian work in Africa, or any country, please look into voluntering with Habitat, World Vision, Compassion International, or many other solid reputable groups that do good work to meet the needs of the people they are there to serve. <br /><br />This particular group raises a huge red flag for me. Recently they have begun selling coffee to fund their travels. They are taking could have been a way for them to help a village develop a sustainable income producing business selling coffee beans grown in their own region, and turned into a money making travel fund for themselves. This is simply wrong and their selfish actions are raising red flags in the humanitarian world. <br /><br />In the end you will do what you decide which organization you choose to travel with. My hope is that you will reconsider your current desision and go on a trip with an organization that actually does to humanitarian work, and not simply a snap and shoot group.CareGiving Daughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03326854215102017169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-11887415250762906022011-12-07T11:30:51.721-08:002011-12-07T11:30:51.721-08:00If this is a lifelong dream, why haven't you b...If this is a lifelong dream, why haven't you been saving towards it? Wouldn't be more satisfying to work towards/save/earn the money for your trip yourself? It's not like Africa is going anywhere if it takes you longer than "right now." But apparently, finger crossing, praying and panhandling are what god wants you to do? I'm sorry but it is selfish to expect people to support your "humanatarian" (try spellcheck) trip. Please read the "trip" notes listed on the GHNI site, there is nothing "humanitarian" about this trip.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-26229212816642052692011-12-07T11:29:56.778-08:002011-12-07T11:29:56.778-08:00I wish those who are commenting here anonymously t...I wish those who are commenting here anonymously that I can respond to you personally and Susan I can't find a link back to respond to you either so I will just respond here. I am sorry Anon you had a bad experience with GHNI. I have done my research and have talked to many principals at GHNI and feel comfortable to involve myself with them and their humanatarian trips. To the other anonymous who called me a beggar. Have you ever even read my blog, again I find it funny that this cause gets peoples feathers all ruffled. If you don't want to be involved, then don't. Don't read my blog, don't donate. Don't read Mckmamas blog, that is your choice. And Susan, I am going to pay for a big chunk of it myself. The donations that are made directly to GHNI go towards the trip not into my bank account and since they are a non profit, it is tax deductible. I am not necessarily asking total strangers, alot of my blog followers, readers I have built relationships with. I obviously do not know you, or don't think I do and again as I said re MckMama to the other anon comment, if you dont like her or me for that matter, that is your choice and you can chose not to read, not to support, not to donate. I really don't want to make this negative and hope that people can refrain from posting derogatory comments.I Am Not Superwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717039007487251634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-43694333202701827232011-12-07T10:50:51.810-08:002011-12-07T10:50:51.810-08:00Give me a break! I'd like to know exactly how...Give me a break! I'd like to know exactly how you going to Africa is going to help someone. To top it off, you want strangers to pay for it. If you can't take care of yourself (buying your own ticket and expenses), you have no business going to Africa to gawk at the poor people. <br /><br />No one can deduct a donation to you either. Paying for your airfare isn't a charity.<br /> <br />I have questions about any charity organization that is involved with Mckmama. I don't see how they could be legit if she's involved.Susannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-35477337013266429322011-12-07T10:49:10.232-08:002011-12-07T10:49:10.232-08:00Beggar! You sound just like Jennifer McKinney, lo...Beggar! You sound just like Jennifer McKinney, looking for a handout to take a vacation! Shame on the both of you!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-86527338773136995102011-12-07T10:41:21.493-08:002011-12-07T10:41:21.493-08:00Sorry to be posting anonymously. I don't know...Sorry to be posting anonymously. I don't know how to post in any other way...<br />Um. You might want to check into this organization a little more carefully. I have been burned by them in the past. They are humanitarian in that they host "come meet us" tours of parts of Africa. You aren't doing anything for them per say. Just gawking at them. They made a big to-do about how they were getting water to these folks and it turns out the GOVERNMENT in the area paid for it. Not GHNI. GHNI didn't even help install it, they watched the villagers install it. In addition, if you look them up, a great deal of the $ the collect goes to running the organization, very little goes to the areas they claim to help. AND! If you really want to help, don't you think getting the $ over there that all these folks are paying to GO there would be more helpful, especially since you aren't doing anything helpful when you get there other than eating their food and being paraded around? Sorry. I just have a very sore spot for this organization. There are many other places that truly help. Please do your research and reconsider.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-41948249794619294562011-12-07T10:25:27.400-08:002011-12-07T10:25:27.400-08:00Because it is not being given to me per se but rat...Because it is not being given to me per se but rather to GHNI.I Am Not Superwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717039007487251634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-71913450418998715642011-12-07T10:14:44.521-08:002011-12-07T10:14:44.521-08:00How is someone contributing to your trip tax deduc...How is someone contributing to your trip tax deductible?that ain't rightnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3195779316142299683.post-67434046478130145932011-12-07T03:13:37.872-08:002011-12-07T03:13:37.872-08:00Love the Leaving Eden post - I may need to do my ...Love the Leaving Eden post - I may need to do my own post for this. Your 'much hoped for' trip to Ethiopia - how incredibly exciting for you.<br /><br />I've contributed my bit, it's not a huge amount but I figure if every one of your followers contributed as much as me (or even a third of them did) then I'll be reading about your adventures real soon.<br /><br />I'm so sending all of my positive energy your way and hope that your dream becomes a realityAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16151064836369618082noreply@blogger.com